i love Tom to pieces but he can be so unfair...

i posted that one photo of ash whats-his-face and he went into a massive sulk, then got all upset being all like "it makes me feel so unattractive when you post photos of guys like that because they have tattoos and better bodies and slicked back hair... etc etc"
i made the point about him reading Front and posting pictures of Arabella and other girls like that and he was all like "that's totally different, they're just crushes, they're world famous i'm never gonna have a chance with them, there are loads of tattooed guys at college and at zombie prom"
... the annoying thing is that it works exactly the other way too - Ash blahblahblah (i should really learn his surname) is just a crush, he's world famous and i'd never have a chance with him, there are loads of super hot tattooed girls at college and at zombie prom too - i tried to make the point but he just doesn't see it at all. he just doesn't understand that it works both ways.

and then after alll that only two days ago today he goes and posts this picture of Katy Perry. i mean for fucks sake. how is that fair!? i post a picture of a hot celebrity and he gets upset but he doesn't think twice about him posting one... even after the points i made (or at least tried to make the other day)
luckily (especially since i'm not crazy hormonal anymore) it doesn't really bother me. with guys being guys i've kind of got used to the fact that they are always gonna have pictures of hot naked girls, i'm secure enough knowing that he loves me so that's not what's bothering me, it's the injustice of it all. i basically can't post any pictures of any guys without it bothering Tom yet Tom obviously doesn't see any problem in posting semi naked pictures of women as and when he pleases - how is that fair? he must not doesn't think twice about it, especially since he knows i'm extremely insecure about my boobs so this particular photo would get to me if i wasn't so tolerant. i've had to get used to the idea of him looking at and lusting over other women so why can't he get used to the idea of me doing the same to other men? is that really unfair of me to ask?